I'll add my thoughts re: Control v Alan Wake 2
I thoroughly enjoyed both games, but for me, Alan Wake 2 edges out control. Which I find odd, perhaps, since I had to set Alan Wake 2 to Story Mode.
Control was a fantastically fun game to play, a power fantasy, fast paced, and weird. The mechanics of combat were great, easily giving me the impression of being super powered better than any other game I've played, while also not making me feel invulnerable. My biggest complaint with the game, is it felt a bit homogeneous and as a narrative, not super interesting. But what they did with lore and atmosphere was really impressive.
Alan Wake 2 is a genre I don't like, survival horror (horror in general), is not my cup of tea. And I found the combat tedious and difficult, hence setting it to story mode. Where the game excels for me, is in the story telling, atmosphere and the world itself. The first Alan Wake was pretty much a one trick pony, fun, but quite same-y, and painfully, relentlessly under-saturated (as many games of that era were I suppose). Alan Wake 2 with its two protagonists and very different, very beautifully rendered worlds never got boring to me. And within those worlds, the game kept things interesting and fresh. The game is a work of art and takes everything Remedy is best at and dials it in. I also feel like a lot of what they did was quite risky and they pulled it off which is quite impressive in its own right. Plus, the Herald of Darkness song is a banger.
In the end a simple difference is all it takes to make me pick a 'favorite', I am looking forward to replaying Alan Wake 2, and have no real desire to replay Control.
I am looking forward to any and all sequels to anything Remedy does for the foreseeable future.