I have no kids, and my solution was to get my wife into gaming. Unfortunately she is starting late, so she has the gaming ability of about an 8 year old.
My wife had consoles when she was younger, but did not get into computer gaming really until our kids started playing for real. I thought the kids would be okay in Minecraft but the then 11-year-old Squeaky was exposed to some very dark stuff because groomers gonna groom. So we came up with a solution that we could all play together with simple game mechanics, on a private server where I did not have to worry about my kids meeting internet predators. That was just over 9 years ago, as Squeaky is 20 now.
That's not too bad, but she has the habit of calling me in there to fight the bosses for her or when she can't figure something out. I've tried to get her into playing games like Starfield, but ANY game that requires inventory management is right out the door with her.
My wife started out rough, and the running joke in the family is that she still has problems getting through doors. We play Ark: Survival Evolved/Ascended, and the first thing we do when we come onto a new map is to tame some predators and turn them into my wife's bodyguards, which we call 'The Queen's Guard.' Inventory management in Ark is more simple because there are fewer items, you can dump them into nearby bins/storage or into the inventory of your tamed pack-beasts, and unlike Starfield there is absolutely nothing you can pick up that you can't use. I do not know what they were thinking with the plethora of tools laying around that you can pick up and
not do anything with considering they got it right in FO4 and Skyrim, where at least you could break things down into its base useable components. I am sure everyone in this thread was pretty surprised when they learned that 'vacuum tape' could not be used for any crafting, and could not be scrapped to at least render some precious, rare 'adhesive' or 'sealant.'
So if anyone has some sort of game that could get her experience while still letting me play MY games in the next room, let me know.
Try a survival game that is simple, where you can play together. Since we started Ark: Survival Evolved in 2015, we have branched out, and now have family servers for that,
Dark and Light and
Empyrion. We also play a lot of the co-op games. It's easier on my wife because she just follows us around, and she has gotten better over the last 9 years. She is our main builder in survival games, and our heavy weapons specialist in
Generation Zero.
Back on the subject of Starfield, I've got a new favorite ship building strategy.
I pop a couple PB of turrets on the back of my ship facing the rear.
This has the advantage of allowing me to sustain fire on a target even when doing a jousting run, preventing them from regenerating their shields while I get some distance from the target.
I've got a B-class ship right now that uses this strategy, and it works pretty danged well.
My last ship I built before crossing over was like that, sort of. I had the highest level fixed PB's facing forward for the joust as well as an extremely long range missile rack, two side-facing PB turrets on the 'top' of the ship's hull, and two backwards-facing under-slung PB turrets for people who were coming at me from different angle. This strategy was so effective at eliminating enemies in ship-to-ship combat, that I had to make a separate, smaller ship that I flew around in with no turrets, replacing the missiles with a disruptor, if I felt like disabling and boarding ships. Which, for me at least, is super fun and appeals to the space-pirate in me.
Also, the 'gravity torpedo' on the Starborn Guardian ship is the bomb (one should always intend one's puns) for disabling
victims enemy ships prior to boarding, which makes them extra useful.