Little random story time about birthdays and presents and married couples (well, the couple I'm in, at least). . .
My wife and I long ago agreed not to do any "big" gifts for each other on birthdays. For me, it's just another day generally. For her, there's some old emotional baggage tied up with her family issues when she was younger*.
Well, I broke that compact last month for her birthday and used an offhand comment as an excuse to buy her a Switch and a Pokemon game. Honestly, she was absolutely surprised and thrilled (as I expected). I'm thrilled because I pulled it off. Everybody wins!
She laments that she can't get me anything comparable (we're single income while she does some classes ahead of getting a license to do vet tech work) and says I should get myself something nice for my birthday. I'm like, okay, I can use that excuse, and finally bought a new 4k 27" monitor to replace my 15-year-old 22" monitor that could only get to 1050p. That came in last weekend and honestly, I'm thrilled with it.
Nice couple of little birthdays, eh? I thought so!
Anyway, she apparently couldn't live with not getting
something for my birthday so late last week she admitted that she had ordered me "a silly little thing" that but that it was "really two things, more like one for each of us" and that she hoped I liked it and that it would arrive in time for my birthday and so on.
Well! This sounded really neat and I couldn't wait to see what had gotten her so excited. Then, on my birthday earlier this week when it definitely wasn't going to be here in time, she mentioned that she'd first seen it on Twitter back when she was still using it before, well, you know. . . .
Anyway, that got my brain gears turning a bit and after a genuine lightbulb moment I said, "OH MY GOD DID YOU ORDER THE FOXES IN LOVE PLUSHIES?!?!" And her jaw literally dropped before she said, "Motherfucker! How did you guess?** You're not disappointed, are you?" And I'm like, "Hell no!" For we both LOVE the Foxes-in-Love web comic. I am 100% the Blue fox and she is 120% the Green fox.
So here is a photo with "my" birthday presents (Green is obviously on permanent loan to Herself), new 4K on the left and the foxes on overwatch:
And here is perhaps our favorite comic as an example:
Go check them out if you haven't already. I've saved a couple dozen easy because they are so
us. They're also on Bluesky at @foxes-in-love.bsky.social
* - This is somewhat mollified by her deciding that we are a New Family and that she is allowed to create newer, happier associations with her birthday. I happen to agree!
** - Our household should have the Explicit Lyrics sticker on the front door. I'm in construction. She's been a literal sailor (tall ships: wood, canvas, ropes, etc.).