I don't think anyone was surprised that Raptor Lake Refresh is all we're getting for desktop "14th gen" when at Computex the big OEMs were all showing off lineups of "upcoming Z790 boards!" and if you've got any self awareness at all, there's no reason for all of them to come out with a whole lineups of Z790 boards unless 14th gen is coming and it's just Raptor Lake Refresh.
Per Jarred Walton of Tom's Hardware, speaking on the Full Nerd, he reiterated most of the stuff in the article including the leaked MSI slides and the scant 3% performance uplift being rumored. He wouldn't confirm any of the MSI leaks or talk about performance expectations.
He also was willing to go on record saying he's sat in on Gigabyte meetings and that Gigabyte in particular was confident in saying that at least one of their new boards (implied with the new refresh chips) will hit DDR5 8333 speeds. Will that actually be useful? Who knows. They insinuated that was the speed on day one, and if RAM manufacturers get better, with more tuning they might go higher in the future. There's a lot of complicated benchmarking needed to decide if those ultra high RAM clocks are worth it, but it sounds like one of the areas that might be improved is the memory controller.
Most of the rest follows along with the "as expected"-- definitely not a die shrink, Intel "will probably" keep the same naming scheme wink wink nudge nudge which probably means that it'll be similar enough to the old "core i" names that it won't cause any confusion, possibly bridging the naming scheme to the "drop the i and maybe add 'ultra' " names of Meteor Lake.
Both he and the staff of PC World declined to say if they were under specific Intel NDA at the point of recording (8/29/2023) but followed on with the usual "if I were under NDA I couldn't tell you."
I think it's safe to say that Tom's has at least been briefed by Intel on the basics of what to expect for an autumn 2023 launch and they have some expectation of being sampled chips for review if they don't already have them in their hands by now. PC World is likely in a similar position as Tom's is.
Of course Meteor lake is still probably on track for mobile (maybe USFF?) use but not general desktop and may or may not be called 14th gen like the desktop. The expected equivalents are either Broadwell, which launched mobile-only and was only released on mainstream desktop very late in its life cycle, right before Skylake came out, or maybe it's a little more like Tiger Lake or Ice Lake where they were used in Mobile and derivatives used in Xeons, but no mainstream desktop part ever existed for those two architectures. Either way we're 2 generations out at a minimum for a truly new architecture.